The result is the outcome or a consequence of something. Results have been given a lot of importance in every field. Whether it’s parenting, development milestones, school, job etc, results have been used as a measure to derive the efficiency of efforts.
If the results are not appropriate it leaves the person and the guardian disheartened, depressed and discouraged. It’s not that results are a perfect measure but they are made one by people. It’s not necessary for results to be good to prove the development in oneself but it’s imbibed like it. The case gets stronger when it comes to parents who give in their level best for the kids. Lack of appropriate results leaves the parents under doubt, confusion and makes them indecisive. Taking last of the list, discussing how to deal when the child lacks results. Following are ways to cope with the same.
1. Accept child’s potential-
Understanding the child’s potential helps in keeping appropriate standards and expectations of the results. Every child is different and so is their potential. Accepting and working according to the potential always proves satisfying for the parent and the child.
2. Zero expectation.
Regardless of the potential of a child, it is always better to keep no expectation. Regardless of the efforts done it’s always better to keep no expectation. Keeping no expectation never discourages the child or the parent with the result in fact always keeps them motivated, charged and happier to see more results than expectation.
3. Appreciation.
Appreciation and rewards are a part of efforts to achieve something. This keeps the child charged, motivated and in full drive to work on something with the parent as well as enjoy the entire process. Understanding that whatever the result is, but the child is definitely learning something. Appreciate that. Indulge in treats and surprises as a part of appreciation and rewards.
4. Patience
Patience is the key. Children need time to understand, inculcate and learn things. Children need time to go through the process that’s absolutely new to them. Giving them appropriate time and keeping the patience in themselves is the best thing a parent can do to a child. Because every child is different and needs different time to learn.
5. Keep on trying.
Never losing hope, and trying repeatedly will definitely yield the fruits. Try try until you succeed is the quote that never went wrong with anyone.
So, guys, this is the end of the series of overcoming hurdles of a hands-on parent. Let me know if you guys liked this and also what next do you want me to write in the comment box below.
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